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...he loves me...he loves me not

This could just as easily say

...she loves me...she loves me not

 

Weather you are married, or just living together, you may be one of the millions of people each year who discover just how quickly and permanently things can go wrong in a relationship. 

By the way, once relationships fall apart it is very difficult to repair them, not impossible, but seriously difficult.  The majority of people who go through destructive trauma in their relationships most often appear as though they are blind to what is really happening all around them.  It is very easy to become lazy, take for granted your mate.  It's a fact that people will put on any show to capture the heart of another while dating, but after they get together they become the person they really are, and this can be a very real shock to the other person.

Here are a couple examples:

I wish I could be with her.I wish she told me she loves me too.I need to be with her,she's everything to me.I cannot even get down to sleep because I'm always thinking of her.Not giving me any attention at all makes me feel I suck.I wish she was my girl...

 

My marrige is in big trouble.  My wife of ten years took the three kids and left two months ago.  she says she is over the marrige, she doesent love me and she wants out.  I think she is being decieved by another man.  I ask that you would pray her eyes to be opened to the sanctity of marrige and what God really wants from us.  pray there would be a transformation in our hearts and that when reconciles us our marrige would be more blessed more loveing more faithfull more loyal than we ever thought possible.

 

Please restore my family and remove any unforgiveness from all involved's hearts and please make no further action be taken. I promise I will live a good and true life and will be the best husband, father and stepfather a man can be.

The list of examples could go on for pages, relationships are in trouble!  This next statement is going to anger many people.  Millions of people are lazy in their relationships, they do not even try to behave appropriately until things have fallen apart for their mate. 

There happens to be two words that are important when speaking about relationships:  WAKE UP!  Stop being self-centered, self-satisfying and self-fulfilling only, get your heart and mind centered on the needs of your mate and act upon those things.  Start thinking and doing for them just as soon as you have finished this short article.

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...he loves me...he loves me not

...she loves me...she loves me not


 

 


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