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Welcome to the article on the topic of 

...he loves me...he loves me not

This could just as easily say

...she loves me...she loves me not

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There happens to be two words that are important when speaking about relationships:  WAKE UP!  Stop being self-centered, self-satisfying and self-fulfilling, get your heart and mind centered on the needs of your mate and act upon those things.  Start thinking and doing special things for them just as soon as you have finished this Article.

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If on the other hand you feel you deserve to be served by your mate without returning the favors, get used to living alone with a broken heart.  And if you happen to have children being taken away from your selfish life, SHAME ON YOU!  In that case you have not only mistreated and disrespected your mate, but are busy ruining the lives of your children.  By the way, it's not you that deserves better, it's your children that deserve better and should have better than you.

Who am I you ask to be so bold and seemingly self-righteous?  I will soon celebrate my 37th Anniversary with a woman I married just before she turned 18.  We have endured a hard life at times, we have had to face the difficult times of life.  Many things have not turned out for us the way we originally planned them to be.  For example, 15 years ago I was involved in a series of accidents that left me permanently disabled.  Instead of my wife and I living the high life we had planned on when we were young, there are more things I can't do today that ones I can do.  Both my wife and I have had to come to the reality of how our lives will play out, hard work, sacrifices and very serious commitment:  'In good health or bad health, until death do us part.

If you want a good life whatever comes your way, love and serve GOD, love and serve your mate, you will be glad you did.  You will never have to ask yourself -